Simple Meditation for Stress 5 of 5

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Let’s review some key points to form a simple meditation for stress relief that we covered over the past 4 articles.

  • Allow yourself to be still and quiet for about 5 minutes before beginning your meditative practice.
  • Beginners level – Your goal is to practice each component (body, mind and breath) individually in an effort to find a deeper sense of relaxation – this is called regulating body, mind and breath.
  • Advanced level – after feeling a deeper sense of relaxation with each component (body, mind and breath) you are ready to practice unifying them together
  • Practice daily – be consistent with your practice. Practice a little everyday instead of a whole bunch at once. Allow the practice to grow and become apart of your daily routines.
  • Let go – if at any time you feel uncomfortable you need to assess why and try to make adjustments. Sometimes trying too hard becomes frustrating – you need to let go and allow yourself time to build patience with your practice.
  • Your goal is to relax

Be gentle with yourself. Don’t force it. Allow your body to get use to the new sensations. When patients tell me they can’t relax I explain that they’ve master being busy and now they need to master being relaxed. It can take a bit of getting use to. Obviously if you are in pain or have a condition that prevents you from feeling comfortable you may need to seek more professional guidance. At the end of your practice your goal is to feel more relaxed than when you started. Observe how you feel before you start and after you finish. Make a mental note and compare to track how you’re progressing.

Having a practice to relieve stress is a fundamental need to support and maximize your health potential.

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Simple Meditation for Stress 4 of 5

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Continuing to explore a simple meditation for stress relief I’d like to make this practical so you can take this meditation with you instead of feeling you have to lock yourself away in a quiet room to practice. Each of the concepts of regulating and relaxing the mind, body and breath in the previous  3 articles can be practice on it’s own anywhere and at any time. If you’re in line at the bank – try it. If you’re stuck in traffic – try it. Check your body, mind and breath and identify any signs of tension and stress. Take a deep relaxing breath to open and relax the body. Make sure the breathing is deep and comfortable. Steady your mind in the center of your body.

Desire pulls your mind out of your center and up-roots you. Stay centered and rooted and don’t let any desires distract or pull you away. Be true to yourself – stay rooted, stay centered. Through stillness you allow the turbulent waters of your life to be still. In stillness as you gaze into the waters of your life your focus becomes clear. In stillness you see your true self.

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Simple Meditation for Stress Relief 3 of 5

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The past 2 related articles focused on finding a deep sense of relaxation by regulating the body and the breath. In this article “simple meditation for stress relief – 3 of 5” will focus on regulating the mind or mental focus. The mind is likened to an insubstantial, and highly active force directing our qi (vital life force / functional energy). Where your mind goes your qi will follow. Mental energy that is excessive under stress can be consuming. Emotions such as anxiety, worry or random, unorganized thinking can deplete your energy and over time adversely impact your body. If the body is yin-like than the mind is yang-like in yin yang theory and so balance between these two components are necessary. An analogy of boiling water is helpful in understanding this relationship. The mind is the fire under the pot and the body is the water in the pot. Under mental stress the mind (fire) is highly active and consuming to the body (water). When you turn up the fire more water is boiled away in the pot. You’re burning the candle at both ends to use another analogy. In this manner you get a bright light but not for long. Health and longevity of life depends on a balance of yang-fire and yin-water qualities in the body. Health and longevity comes from a slow steady boil. Regularity in life is key to health.

Just remember mental activity is consuming to the body. When meditating or practicing techniques of stress relief an important goal is to stop the overactive mind or at least slow it down. You need something to focus your mind. This overactive mind is called the monkey mind. To make the monkey focus and stop jumping around give the monkey a banana. What’s the banana? Something to focus your mind on. It could be a spot on the wall or ceiling to keep your mind steady. I suggest focusing on your breathing. Particularly the inhalation rooting your mental focus down to your energetic center called the dan tian. The dan tian is located about 1.5 inches below your naval and deep inside the body about mid-way between the front and back of your body. Give it a try.

After regulating the body by laying down for about 5 minutes and after practicing deep breathing comfortably as explained in the 2 previous articles lead your mind down to the dan tian on the next inhalation. When exhaling let the air out but keep your focus fixed low on the dan tian. The dan tian is the source of our energy. Focusing on the dan tian supports the source – a very grounding and relaxation sensation. This is the opposite to the rising energy of anxiety and stress that positions the mind high in the head where most of our senses are located – hearing, sight, taste, smell, feeling. As you try to sink the mind into the dan tian your mind will wander but when it does just place your mental focus back on your inhale following the air in through your nose and down in to your lower abdomen as your lungs expand. You want to use a lot of imagination and feel to create a strong mental image that is interesting to focus on. Imagine feeling every aspect of your body structure as you follow your inhalation downward. Try to extend your feelings deep into the body right down to the cellular level with great attention to detail in a comfortable, mentally steady and calm manner.

Remember when practicing if you feel uncomfortable just let go and stop controlling the meditation. Allow your self to relax and then slowly try again. If you are use to hyperactivity you will be alienated by the stillness in meditation. Be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to experience and become accustom to the stillness of meditation.

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Simple Meditation for Stress 2 of 5

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In the first article of this series called “Simple Meditation for Stress Relief – 1 of 5” we introduced the concept of regulating or controlling 3 components – body, breath and mind and explained a method to regulate the body. Regulating these components means to practice them until they become natural or until they occur habitually with the goal of finding a deep sense of relaxation for each individual component.

Once you feel comfortable regulating each component the next level of practice will be to unify them for a deeper benefit for your health in managing stress.

Regulating the body should be practiced on it’s own for 1 or 2 weeks or until you feel your body is able to relax within about 3 to 5 minutes.

Now let’s explore regulating the breathing. The effort in breathing comes from respiratory muscles contracting to pull open the lungs and fill with air. We want to do this with the least amount of effort to minimize tension and stress and promote comfort and relaxation. You need to understand normal abdominal breathing and water breathing. After you lay down for several to regulate and relax the body start focusing on deeper breathing without feeling uncomfortable.

When you inhale your abdomen should rise and when you exhale your abdomen will settle back down. This is called a water breath with the emphasis on the lower abdomen – think of this as a low region in the body where water (yin substances) can sink and settle.

Opposite to water breathing is fire breathing or sometimes called martial or military breathing. The chest expands with fire breathing. This requires more muscles and excites your energy. This is the kind of breathing that occurs naturally when you in a fight or confrontation. This causes energy to rise up like fire. Fire breathing is not useful when your goal is to relax so make sure you are practicing water breathing or normal abdominal breathing which that allows the abdomen to rise and fall in a comfortable manner.

When you accomplished regulating the body by laying down and feeling a deeper sense of relaxation after 3 – 5 minutes then start practicing normal abdominal breathing. Practice normal abdominal breathing for 10 to 20 minutes each day until you feel comfortable and more relaxed with the practice.

At first you may feel uncomfortable trying to control your breathing. Just let go and allow your breathing to be natural. Controlling your breathing could be a problem for some people and you may need more professional guidance in this portion of the exercise. When ever you feel uncomfortable you need to let go and stop trying to over-control the practice so that you feel comfortable and feel safe. This practice is a gentle practice that needs time to develop. It should not be forced or heavy-handed. Controlling your breath should be as light as a feather. Be gentle with yourself and you will go far.

Deep breathing can provide great benefits to your health. Next time you are stressed out try to pay attention to your breathing. You may notice that you hold your breath because you are dealing with so much stress that you can even take another breath in. Like a pressure cooker you are tensing up under stress and forcing energy to build up inside. You need to let it go before this pressure starts to damage your body internally.

Alternatively, the next time you wake up from a peaceful sleep and you are semi-conscious pay attention to your breathing. You may notice it to be deep and your abdomen is moving very naturally without even trying. This is water breathing that is naturally done at night to rejuvenate the body. Learn from this and integrate it into your practice. If you don’t experience waking up from a peaceful sleep then maybe you need help with sleep which is fundamental to optimal health. Give the clinic a call if you need help with sleep. Sleep is an important pillar of health. Without the support of good sleep the whole thing falls apart.

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Yin Yang theory defines balance as two equal but opposite forces coming together for harmony. This series is about finding balance when under stress. Stress is fire-like (yang) which is opposite to relaxation which is water-like (yin) and complementary. When there’s too much fire we need to cool it down with water – too much stress requires relaxation to restore balance. What are you doing to promote balance, relieve stress and maximize your health?

In this 5 part series I want to introduce some simple concepts of meditation based on qigong (energy-work). As a beginner there are 3 components you must unify and regulate or practice controlling:

  1. Body
  2. Breath
  3. Mind

Regulating these components means to practice them until they become natural or until they occur habitually with the goal of finding a deep sense of relaxation individually. As a second and deeper stage you will learn to unify these components. Like the yin yang symbol we want to bring these 3 components in harmony together so they don’t over-control each other to engender balance within the body for health.

There are many practices to explore in regulating each component so if you find one practice difficult don’t give up.  Keep searching for other forms to regulate these components until you find what works for you.

This article will focus on regulating the body. If you don’t have experience with meditation you may think that you have to sit with your legs crossed in what is called the lotus position to meditate. You don’t have to. There are goals for different postures that are beyond the scope of this article. The simple goal here is to find a deep sense of relaxation in the 3 individual components – body, breath and mind.

You need to feel comfortable and relaxed when meditating. Regulating the body is simple – find a posture that helps you feel completely relaxed. Some people have difficulty like pain and need to position their body in an unusual position for comfort which is ok as long as your breathing is not obstructed.

Laying down face-up is a good general posture to relax the body. You may want to tuck a pillow under your legs and head and grab a blanket to cover the body as long as it helps your body to relax. Placing the legs up higher than the torso allows excess blood to drain back towards the heart and lungs to be re-oxygenated and recirculated which can feel rejuvenating to the body. Practice relaxing and regulating the body for 10 to 20 minutes each day.

You know you are benefiting your health if you feel more relaxed at the end of the practice.

Check out this article on promoting good posture which relates to regulating the body particularly when standing – https://natureshealing.info/posture/

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Blood Sugar Levels and Stress

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Blood sugar levels and stress have a relationship that needs to be understood to optimize health and prevention.

Are you feeling stressed out? Maybe you feel edgy or more anxious than usual? What about your energy levels? Do you feel low on energy? Maybe you have irregular energy levels like feeling sluggish in the morning, or energy dips in the afternoon and then, at night, you feel wired. Do you find it difficult to relax? Are you having trouble falling asleep? Perhaps irregular blood sugar levels could be the source of your discomfort and stress.

Stress is an unfortunately common word nowadays to describe daily living. Regulating blood sugar levels is an important factor for managing stress. It’s an essential practice in health awareness and prevention to identifying factors that cause stress and take measures to limit their drain on health.

Body function requires energy. Regulating blood sugar levels can be thought of as regulating energy. A consistent level of energy will reflect in more consistent body function. Consistency is a defining term for optimal health. Later, I’ll give you a great tip to regulate blood sugar levels but first let’s talk about stress.

Under stress, your body’s internal resources are being used up. The daily drip of chronic stress is unnatural and draining. Over months and years stress depletes the body. Body function can fail to regain balance under stress. Weight gain, poor energy levels and all sorts of signs and symptoms can come about because the body doesn’t have the energy to do what it needs to do.

Think of your body as a factory with a finite number of workers that are required to maintain factory operations – digestion of food, absorption of nutrients, restorative sleep, muscle strength, mental focus, elimination of waste and toxins and so much more.

Stress is an excess that drains job performance.  For example; tired factory workers, assigned to eliminate toxins or absorb nutrients, don’t do a good job. Over time, lack of nutrients and toxic build up in the body begins to weaken the job performance of other workers who are left to pick up the slack. Depletion of energy and resources has weakened factory operations. Many aspects of production have become increasingly more difficult. At this point, you may start to feeling like an old mill in West Warwick that was built during the industrial revolution, ug!

Every cell in the body needs to eat and needs to eliminate waste. Under the constant drain of stress the body says, “you know what, I don’t have energy to digest and absorb this food so pass it right on out of here.” Or the body says, “I don’t have energy to break down and eliminate these toxins so they are going to stay right in the body. Maybe that job will get done on another day when energy levels are more optimal. All those failing body functions pile up over time and become debilitating. More stress sets in as natural healing abilities slow down and often pain is experienced and becomes chronic.

When it comes to stress there’s only 2 things you can do. Quit or support yourself in the best way possible. Health support usually means awareness and engagement in diet, exercise, stress management, sleeping well, and digesting well. Supportive therapies that emphasis prevention and wellness care can naturally support body function like acupuncture, chiropractic, reiki, massage, yoga, tai chi, chi kung, herbs, and supplements.

Artificially propping up the body through stimulants, pain killers and sleep aids do not encourage natural body function. Encouraging the body to function naturally is the kick-butt-grand-ultimate-master plan for longevity and well-being. Nothing compares.

Now, after all that talk about stress, let’s talk about sugar. Sugar is the #1 problem in the modern diet. Sugar can dis-regulate body function and lead to inflammation which can lead to many debilitating health issues.

Foods, high in sugar, are usually low in nutrients. If you want to feel edgy and anxious then eat a low-nutrient, high-sugar diet. You think you have sugar cravings but it’s really your body telling you it’s starving for nutritious foods. When you eat something sweet those sugar cravings never goes away for long. Try eating more whole, nutritious foods and you’ll forget all about those sugar cravings.

I want to share with you a great tip to help you regulate your blood sugar levels to maintain optimal body function throughout your day.

Tip: eat more frequently and avoid skipping meals. Simple!

Even supply of nutrients equals an even output of energy. Regular, more frequent meals optimizes support for the energy needs of the body. Eating every 2 or 3 hours throughout the day will supply your body with a consistent source of fuel.

The meals need to be small and low-carb based. If you eat too many carbs you’ll gain weight. If you have a physically demanding job you will need more calories to burn. Conversely, if you aren’t physically active you will need fewer calories to burn and maintain proper weight.

Inconsistent mealtimes create stress on the body by providing inconsistent energy and promoting irregular body function. Skipping meals puts your body into conservation mode and slows down your metabolic engine. This can lead to low energy, poor nutrition, poor body function, poor elimination of toxins and weight gain. Eating a large meal, thinking it will carry you longer through your day, is a bad idea. Overwhelming your digestion can leave you feeling tired, bloated and limit your ability to absorb nutrients.

If you have chronic health issues and are under constant stress, you will struggle to have sufficient energy left over for your body to activate any natural healing. Eat small, low-carb meals every 2 or 3 hours for consistent energy to optimize your health. Also practice the 80% rule so that 20% can have your back. If you missed my article on following the 80% rule, you can check it out here.

Best wishes in health!

Follow The 80 Percent Rule

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Follow The 80 Percent Rule for Optimal Health

Only go about 80% of your ability. Leave some room to avoid overdoing it. More than 100% means you reach a breaking point. That’s not where we want to be when it comes to natural prevention and optimal health.

I always use the 80% rule in the practice and teaching of Tai Chi and Chi Kung but it can apply to all things in life. In today’s fast-pace lifestyle everything is go-go-go trying to fit as much stuff as we can into a single day. When holidays like Christmas comes along do we cut out activity to make room for a festive holiday? No no noooooo! We try to jam the holiday activities into our already-busy and hectic schedule inviting more grief! Obviously this is bad form if you’re trying to be preventative and take measure to promote health and wellness naturally for you and your family.

Tai Chi and Chi Kung develops a higher level of awareness and more deeply solidifies the mind-body connection. Intensely focusing on what’s outside of yourself inevitably leads to a disconnect for what’s going inside yourself. Developing awareness in how your lifestyle and routines influence your health can give you early warning signs on how to adjust course towards a better path for self-care. Following the 80% rule will give you space to mentally stay focus and centered. A mind full of irregular thought patterns will manifest into irregular health and body function. A steady mind will reflect more stable health and steady body function.

Navigating through life headstrong and blind to your limits will be problematic. The no-pain-no-gain mantra will reveal limits and all too often will result in injury and setbacks. The 80% rule allows room for error. With 20% extra space you can even out the bumps and make your daily routines flow more smoothly. The body runs on cyclical patterns like activity and rest that need regularity and consistency not jittery, hectic patterns of irregularity. Traveling through life is like riding in a car. Irregularity is like driving on a bumpy road with lots of turns and lots of ups and downs. Regularity is a smooth steady ride along a flat road traveling at a steady speed. Which ride would make you anxious and which ride would give you peace of mind?

I often see excessive actions that create setbacks when improvements are experienced with acupuncture. A patient with chronic pain through treatment begins to see improvements. They feel more energetic and spend 10 hours straight over the weekend cleaning the house. When they return for a follow up acupuncture treat they feel terrible – they overdid it, beyond 100%. A long-term, chronic condition is a sign that the body has low healing abilities. Under acupuncture treatment, any excess energy that is experienced should be conserved to deeply enable the healing process more efficiently. It shouldn’t be drained away senselessly as if the body has no limits. The 80% rule needs to be accessed daily or even moment to moment. The expression living in the moment hold true value. Pacing yourself throughout your day with a deeper level of awareness will help prevent setbacks.

Good health, as I always say, is about good circulation or functional flow. When we drain ourselves we lack the energy to keep our body functioning at its optimal levels. No amount of exercise or healthy eating will make up for an overwhelming and hyperactive lifestyle that drains the life force right out of you.

Without sufficient energy maybe your body decides to cut off optimal function to the elimination process. You experience a slow increase of toxins in the body that will eventually lead to all sorts of health issues. Maybe lower than optimal energy means your digestion doesn’t work as well. All that money you spend on food becomes a waste because you don’t have sufficient energy to efficiently digest those all-important nutrients. Maybe without enough functional energy, or qi as we acupuncturists like to say, it diminishes your ability to focus and concentrate. This may lead to poor work efforts, lack of patience and bad relationships and on and on and on.

Follow the 80% rule and be aware of your limits and conserve your energy. Awareness is the key to prevention. The more you understand about yourself and your surroundings the more you can make better choices. You’ll be able to regulate your energy levels and experience smooth, supportive transitions (cycles) in your daily or even yearly routines. Instead of reacting to problems you can make preventive choices and be ahead of the game. You can make choices that will put you on a better path for greater health.

Design your day with about 20% room to move. Make some space so when problems come along you’ll have the capacity to handle them better. Think about the activities and choices you make that pushes your limits to the extreme. Make a conscious effort to moderate them. Perhaps you’re overeating? Only eat until you’re about 80% full. Digestion won’t be overwhelmed. You may feel less bloated with more energy. Perhaps you’ve over-committed yourself and need to reassess your capabilities and the time you can afford to spend to maintain balance in happiness and health. In the game of life, health and longevity following the 80% rule is a great strategy to moderate and conserve your qi for optimal health.

Defining Stress

Defining Stress

In Traditional Oriental Medicine stress can be viewed as an excess condition like fire that overheats the body and causes dis-regulation to many major body functions including digestion, sleep, mental focus and stamina.

Body function is based on a natural rhythm of cyclical patterns – sleep, activity, eating, inhaling, exhaling and so on. Moderation and consistency is the key. Excessive or irregular patterns become stressful and can cause health imbalances. Regularity is the key to good health. A consistent schedule is required, for example; going to bed and getting up at the same time, eating at the same times each day, regular exercise, right down to simple patterns of inhalation and exhalation all can have an impact on health.

Basically, there are two types of stress – physical stress and mental stress. Most people today, particularly in the USA are stressed mentally. In older time’s people didn’t need physical exercise because they were already physically stressed walking everywhere, building their own home, growing and gathering their own food and cooking from scratch and so on.

Stress is a state of being overwhelmed to a point of affecting natural body function. Look at children for example. Young children, particularly toddlers, act very natural. They don’t understand what is socially acceptable so when they are upset or feel overwhelmed they cry out. Their feelings create an excess of qi or energy in the body like a pressure cooker. This pressure is naturally released from the body. Kids are loaded with energy and burn it out by running around and being very active but a situation that requires them to be still can be challenging. Their mind is not mature enough to regulate their energy or their speed – they tend to go full throttle until they exhaust themselves.

An adult tends to act differently. In a stressful situation, say at work, an adult needs to maintain composure. It’s not acceptable to cry out although every now and then someone is bound to snap. When a person is stressed their mind is racing – multitasking. Their mind is like a fire in the body but the body and the breathing doesn’t express this activity. This leads to what I call dis-regulation. The mind is racing and the blood pressure is probably up but if the person started breathing heavy this might look weird to co-workers. Remember the saying, “don’t let them see you sweat”? So unconsciously the breathing becomes shallow and very controlled. The body isn’t getting enough air and starts to overheat. Also muscles in the body become increasingly tense. That racing mind wants to be expressed physically but flailing arms again might look a little weird so this stressed-out person tightens up the body muscles a bit to maintain composure.

When the mind, body and breath are synchronized the body works well. This unification is something we, as Tai Chi & Qigong practitioners strive for. These health rejuvenating exercises are often referred to as a moving meditation. Conversely, when the mind, body and breath are out of sync they work against each other. This stress impairs body function and leads to disorder and disease.

Over time stress can affect other major body functions like digestion and sleep. When digestion and sleep are affected you are in big trouble health-wise. They are core functions for rejuvenating and recovering from stress and to maintain health. Some people reach for prescription drugs to aid digestion and sleep which never gets to the root cause of the problem and the person continues in a downward spiral of poor health. Chronic aches, pains and fatigue become the new normal.

Some stress we can avoid but some stress we can’t so what do you do? Support your body as best you can. A more natural approach to support health under stress is to nutritionally feed the body with highly nutritious foods and supplements to support a person’s individual needs. There’s no “one size fits all diet for stress”. Each individual has individual health challenges and therefor needs selective advice on diet and supplements to be supportive.

A professional diet consult can be very helpful in addressing such support. Acupuncture can also be helpful. Acupuncture is a very gentle, safe and effective way to deal with pain and stress and promote relaxation. In addition, you may consider learning Tai Chi or Chi Kung (Qigong) to really get to the root of the problem. Tai Chi & Qigong can train you to form a deeper level of awareness that can regulate and unify the body, mind and breath. This unification strengthens the body against chaotic patterns of stress that adversely creates a consuming fire in the body and leads to so many health issues. These are what I call natural solutions to healing and optimal health.